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Over the last weeks, I am becoming more and more curious about the fact why we have no 'Fisting Parties' in the Benelux like in the USA. You have there parties like Fistfest, where over 300 fisters come together in a hotel and have ffun for a whole weekend. Why is there no such thing over here? Ok, we have bars like The Boots and The Chaps in Belgium, and I know personnally some 'home-parties' from time to time, but they all have their pro's and contra's: - If you go to a bar or sexclub, you may hope that there are others who have the same intrests. Can you imagine that I saw people in the Boots, who were wearing red bracelets 'because they matched their boots' and they had no idea why I was handing them the Crisco when we sat in a cublicle together?
- A bar or club is not always the best place to go 'in deep' fun and get to know the other, certainly if there are no slings or adequate materials. And sometimes it is not so clean either.
- And what after the fun. No place to stay, so you need to get home, what is not always easy, looking to the fact that you sometimes used some powder ...
On the other hand, organising something at home is not always thé idea: - You have to foresee everything in your private house, put away precious things, because you are not sure who comes in your house. Despite some good screening, I have visited parties where afterwards the organiser was questioning everybody who had stolen some items.
- When everybody is having fun, you are running around for the drinks, the towels, letting people in and out. So for whom is the party, you could ask
- And who will clean up all the mess, going from gloves and paper to crisco and Jlube all over your furniture, the same where your mother or mother-in-law will be sitting on next weekend.
So, here is the question: why not put some heads together and come up with a party every once in a while in a hotel/motel somewhere for a decent price, where we can go wild when/how we want, with colleague fisters for an acceptable time. I am calling all FF'ers from Belgium, Holland, North of France, Luxemburg and West-Germany to let me know what they think about this. I certainly am interested in putting a FFest together, but not alone... Eagerly waiting for responses ! Ardanwen |
