I got a message from my BF that the Vagevuur will have its sunday FF party on Sunday the 14th. As we here in Belgium have free on the next day, I sure am planning to go.

Only negative point: I will be alone. BF finds the Vagevuur too much FF-oriented during these parties, and he is not having that much fun then. So I will be dropping him off at some of his dutch fuckbuddies in the neighbourhood, so he can also have his part of the fun that day.

For those who know me, know that I am not a favourite of La Demence. I know better things to do during a hot night then dancing the night away with 1000 sweating men around me and darkrooms full of people having vanilla sex.

But on the other hand, my loved one is asking for months now to go again. Since our last visit over there was overshadowed with a powerfailure and a bomalert, that kept us in the street, half naked for more then an hour, I was reluctant to say YES.

Why are people going to la demence: three things only: Sex, drugs and rock-and-roll. Well, it is no longer rock-and-roll, but the music is there all night long in two halls. As I am not a dancer, I like what I'm hearing, but can not bring myself to dance on it.

Secondly, for the drugs, don't need to go to the party for that.

Leaves us with the sex. Ok, it is nice to see all those gym-toned bodies and feel those cocks, and I can easily say I am never short of hands, mouths, cocks and asses to get what I want, but the darkrooms are so small and packed, that you need to get in line to enter, you can hardly move around and it smells like hell. Comes with that that I see more and more unsafe sex there, and I just can not understand that. So you can imagine that my libido is not high at that moment.

But yeah, why not this time. We have a whole week off that week, and Amsterdam is just two days later. Let's make the bf happy. So: we are going to La Demence on the 20th of June.

CU there.

Little update: as the Anco hotel was already full, we are heading for the 'Stablemaster' Hotel in Amsterdam to stay during our two days of ffun.

I know from experience in the past that it is cosy but small, and can be a little noisy in the streets, as we are staying in De Warmoesstraat, one of the gay hangouts in Amsterdam.

But as always, we will make sure that ffun is there, and we will get a 100% out of it...

Well, perhaps see you there !

So, after a quiet weekend (18-19/06)  we will ending the month of June with a visit to our favourite leatherbar, the Chaps in Liege.

Looks like there is a master/slave weekend planned then, but I'm sure other flavours will not be forgotten.

And if all goes well, we will be with three, a camerade of rough4u is coming with us.

See you there !